I was a regular at a Beer bar and pizza joint less than a block from my house. I spent a good 2 hours there chatting with the bartender who was my friend, eating dinner and talking. I did not go out to meet anyone – it was a Tuesday night. There were two rather drunk women at the end of the bar, and I struck up conversation – it was the younger, more attractive one’s last day at her job. At the end of the night, the bar was getting ready to close, and we’d been talking about sex for quite a while – but she had a boyfriend. She kept turning me down. On my way out of the door, I came up close behind her and said something along the lines of “You sound like you’re going to break up with the boyfriend anyway, why not go out with a bang?” and she paid her tab and followed me to my apartment.
Now, as I said before – I did not use “flirting” to create attraction where it does not exist, but I DID use certain techniques to encourage women who had reservations – mostly these techniques boiled down to me making it clear that I’m not just looking to have sex – but that I’m actually quite good at it and that they’ll enjoy it.
To me, this is “aggressive” and it was the difference between me being alone at home vs. what actually happened.
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Now, as I said before – I did not use “flirting” to create attraction where it does not exist, but I DID use certain techniques to encourage women who had reservations – mostly these techniques boiled down to me making it clear that I’m not just looking to have sex – but that I’m actually quite good at it and that they’ll enjoy it.
To me, this is “aggressive” and it was the difference between me being alone at home vs. what actually happened.
Reply
Why Alpha Males are Overrated
How A Glass Of Water Can Destroy Your Love
What Men Actually Care About in Dating
A Look Inside the World of Polyamory
Going on a Lot of Crappy First Dates?
Knowing When A Relationship Is Dying
Living With The One You Love
Do You Need A Love Detox From Your Ex?
How to Forgive a Cheating Father
4 Tips to Keep You Communicating
How Every Single Young Woman Can Improve Her Luck
Your Best Friend the Hag
Men Temptation and Commitment
On Dating: Relearning the Rules of a First Date
Top 5 Signs a Hot Guy May Not be Worth Your Time!
The Truth About Why Guys Can't Commit
5 Easy Ways to Get Your Guy to Communicate With You!
3 Ways to Give Your Self-Esteem a Boost!
Looking for Love? Learn to Love Yourself First!
How to Set Boundaries in Your Life and With Love
Is Your Weight Cramping Your Love Life?
The 5 Types of Guys Youll Meet at a Bar and How to Avoid Them!