Esqin
March 31st, 2010 at 21:08 | #24Reply | Quote
Very true… I find that words sometimes do not truly captivate how I really feel. So for me, its music, maybe a lil SWV, maybe some Dwele, maybe some rap, or maybe some classic jazz…
I refer to music, because it always seem to fill in the blanks where emotions and words are absent.
So for you… based off of your post yesterday, the song that I felt when I read it was Teedra Moses “Closer”…
Laura
March 31st, 2010 at 21:33 | #25Reply | Quote
Fortunately for me, when I expressed how I felt to my ex, it was reciprocated and now we’re trying to work things out. (Unfortunately, if it doesn’t have to work, it’ll hurt that much more…) I will say that prior to finally expressing myself, the way I dealt with heartbreak was NOT to try to find someone to replace him to fill that void; I tried to fill that void with friends, family, and other activities to keep my mind off it. Did it work? No. But I would like to think that over time, it would have. Bottom line is, shit’s complicated and there really is no magical solution to get over strong feelings…oh life…