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So how about starting out with asking yourself the question, is this really the right time for you to date? You may need some rest and relaxation first. You can't date or be in a relationship and do it well if you're exhausted, let alone bitter. Figure out what is making you exhausted, and work on curing that much bigger problem. You will also need time to heal from the wounds of your divorce and long-term marriage dissolving. Regardless of what a jerk he was, it's still a loss and a change. A big change. For some people, taking six months to not date at all is very productive.

When you're ready to face the world with your best face forward, then, and only then, is the time to start dating. You pull in what you put out, and if you're bitter and exhausted, you're going to attract other people who are bitter and exhausted.

There are PLENTY of good men out there. But you have to be your best self to attract them.

Some days I just feel so down, April. I try to be happy, but it doesn’t always come easily to me. How can I be happy?

Happiness comes from the difference between expectations and reality. When that difference is too great, so, too will your level of unhappiness. Adjusting expectations to reality is one way to be happier. Let go of unrealistic expectations and you'll find the key to happiness.