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Selena says:
August 10, 2011 at 5:47 pm
Nathan,
The OP found out about her bf’s ‘proclivities’ after 7 mos. by accident. Since he never said, or did anything prior to that to clue her in (as far as we know) , I don’t see what she did wrong. Should she have brought up exclusivity sooner? Maybe she was just letting things unfold as they would. Even if they became *exclusive* at month 2, he still could have been trolling at month 7 as he did. Fact is he didn’t tell her about his deal until after he was caught at it. When they became exclusive doesn’t matter.

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nathan says:
August 10, 2011 at 6:37 pm
We can disagree on this one Selena. I’m not defending the guy for hiding the truth, and for flirting online after they had become exclusive.

And you’re right, they could have become exclusive earlier on and he still could have been trolling at month 7.


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