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I couldn’t agree more…

I know I get knocked for not giving enough people a chance or saying no to often. But I know what I want and I think that gives me the ability to say “No” to certain situations when others think I should be saying yes.

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Great post. I’ve tried to be a yes person but it turns out that I never get asked out anyway…so that flopped. lol. Sometimes clarity is just more important than a good time (or disastrous date!)

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• “it’s about agreeing only to what you want, not what others want for you.”

Well said!

I like nice guys but not “yes men”. I like a guy who can say no to me. I respect them a lot more if they are able to do this! I think its important for both people to have healthy boundaries.

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October 25, 2010 1:07 pm

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