The Ego Test
The Paradox Of Choice
The Psychology Of The Hottest Girls
The Truth Comes Out In The Bedroom
The Wingwomen Service
Undeniable Proof That The Dating Scene Is Seriously Screwed Up
Women In Male Dominated Professions
Your Duty As A Man
She said that the boyfriend lost most of his friends through the divorce. So maybe he doesn’t have many friends, and maybe the son is tight with their boy. There are a lot of unknowns here. I think it is a HUGE stretch to infer that this isn’t a relationship between the OP and the boyfriend. It may be a developing one, or one with flaws, but there seems to be something real and genuine there.
Also, I felt the line that he has done well for himself, pays child support, does the private school thing serves to add some background and context to her question. it helped me visualize the guy and his friend group – with the weekend trips, the golf, the PTA and coaching involvement, etc. I felt like I got some sense of this guy’s social life. I think it was uncalled for and snarky to infer that if the guy wasn’t successful, she wouldn’t have been as interested.
I got the sense the OP is trying to figure things out. And the guy may be a louse, for sure. But he also may be at the tail end of a sticky situation, still getting a bit of a thrill from it, but ready to leave it behind and not sure how to do so. I would tread cautiously and see what happens.
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Paula says:
August 11, 2011 at 11:01 am
The Paradox Of Choice
The Psychology Of The Hottest Girls
The Truth Comes Out In The Bedroom
The Wingwomen Service
Undeniable Proof That The Dating Scene Is Seriously Screwed Up
Women In Male Dominated Professions
Your Duty As A Man
She said that the boyfriend lost most of his friends through the divorce. So maybe he doesn’t have many friends, and maybe the son is tight with their boy. There are a lot of unknowns here. I think it is a HUGE stretch to infer that this isn’t a relationship between the OP and the boyfriend. It may be a developing one, or one with flaws, but there seems to be something real and genuine there.
Also, I felt the line that he has done well for himself, pays child support, does the private school thing serves to add some background and context to her question. it helped me visualize the guy and his friend group – with the weekend trips, the golf, the PTA and coaching involvement, etc. I felt like I got some sense of this guy’s social life. I think it was uncalled for and snarky to infer that if the guy wasn’t successful, she wouldn’t have been as interested.
I got the sense the OP is trying to figure things out. And the guy may be a louse, for sure. But he also may be at the tail end of a sticky situation, still getting a bit of a thrill from it, but ready to leave it behind and not sure how to do so. I would tread cautiously and see what happens.
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Paula says:
August 11, 2011 at 11:01 am