The Effigy Effect
Patience, or Lack Thereof
The “Real” Date
Cut Your Losses
The joke that is feminism
Realization – To be or not to be
Calling her “Boss” will dry up her clam!
Leap Year Marriage Proposal Traditions
Butterfly says:
November 2, 2011 at 2:24 pm
Hi D and Craig,
You both are right, I’m Asian (how can you tell ?) but I don’t think it has anything to do with ethnicity. I’m a very outspoken and open person and I always say what or how I feel. I already told him about how I feel that he’s not making any effort in our relationships since we begin our exclusivity in the 2nd month(now it’s 3 months already). I convey my thoughts and feeling in a nice and calm way cos I don’t want to sound complaining or whining (or harsh way : bitchy). I show sincere care towrds him and as a person, I want to know that the other person also cares and loves me. If he can’t show it and expect me to sleep with him, then it would be a problem for me. I need to feel the emotional connectivity that he wants to be with me because he cares about me and accepts me for who I am. He told me before that I am a caring, warm and loving person. That’s what he likes about me he said. So he should know better what that definition means. I’m looking for someone who is genuinely caring and compassionate to me. I’m not looking for self-validation or ego booster for my relationship just to prove I’m better than others because I’m not sleeping with him. I learned from my past mistakes. I want the other person to get to know me first and everything else will come to its place on the right time. Sex to me is very special and intimate bonding to someone I am with.
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Patience, or Lack Thereof
The “Real” Date
Cut Your Losses
The joke that is feminism
Realization – To be or not to be
Calling her “Boss” will dry up her clam!
Leap Year Marriage Proposal Traditions
Butterfly says:
November 2, 2011 at 2:24 pm
Hi D and Craig,
You both are right, I’m Asian (how can you tell ?) but I don’t think it has anything to do with ethnicity. I’m a very outspoken and open person and I always say what or how I feel. I already told him about how I feel that he’s not making any effort in our relationships since we begin our exclusivity in the 2nd month(now it’s 3 months already). I convey my thoughts and feeling in a nice and calm way cos I don’t want to sound complaining or whining (or harsh way : bitchy). I show sincere care towrds him and as a person, I want to know that the other person also cares and loves me. If he can’t show it and expect me to sleep with him, then it would be a problem for me. I need to feel the emotional connectivity that he wants to be with me because he cares about me and accepts me for who I am. He told me before that I am a caring, warm and loving person. That’s what he likes about me he said. So he should know better what that definition means. I’m looking for someone who is genuinely caring and compassionate to me. I’m not looking for self-validation or ego booster for my relationship just to prove I’m better than others because I’m not sleeping with him. I learned from my past mistakes. I want the other person to get to know me first and everything else will come to its place on the right time. Sex to me is very special and intimate bonding to someone I am with.
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